The Absolute Value of Your Child

If you were forced to study algebra when you were a
teenager, it probably didn't occur to you that it
would one day come in handy as a metaphor for
unconditional love. But here it is...

In mathematics, the "absolute value" of a number is
its *magnitude* regardless of whether it's positive
or negative. So the numbers +50 and -50 have the same
absolute value: 50.

Likewise, practicing the Art of Unconditionality
often means disregarding the negative interpretations
of a condition or behavior and finding a way to see
it in a positive light. For example:

Likewise, the Art of Unconditionality involves
disregarding the negative interpretations of a
condition or behavior and finding a way to see it
in a positive light. For example:

* Whether your child says "I love you" or "I hate
you," you can appreciate the magnitude of her
expressiveness and emotional honesty.

* Whether your child rebels or complies with your
wishes, you can appreciate his absolute freedom
of choice.

Today as you observe your child, if you see any
"negative" behavior then ask yourself, "What is this
telling me about the 'absolute value' of my child?"

By Scott Noelle